Forward
by Susan Richman
This new book of Nancys is
lavish&emdash;its a feast of homeschooling worldwide and all
around the United States. Like HOMESCHOOLING: A PATCHWORK OF DAYS,
the interviews in this book help us all get a glimpse inside another
family and see how they make decisions, move through their days, deal
with ranges of ages of kids, experience vastly different situations,
set in varied locales. Through it all we see caring families, putting
in the time needed to raise good kids. And quite unique
kids&emdash;kids who know quite a bit more of life than the standard
fare of the world of television and the school yard. Youll be
inspired, and youll find yourself calling in your kids so you
can read them aloud a chapter or two, letting them find new friends
in the children in these families.
And the book continues to confound any stereotypes the media may at
times seem to promote about homeschooling&emdash;the range of
families and lifestyles is truly astonishing. There are families who
homeschool very happily with organized texts and correspondence
programs, families who espouse a looser unschooling approach, and
everything in between and beyond. There are homeschooling families
raising dairy goats out in the country, and families who live in neat
suburban neighborhoods. Youll meet families where homeschooling
moms juggle working part-time, often in a family business; blended
families fully enjoying homeschooling stepchildren; single parents
struggling with meeting needs to support themselves and their
children while homeschooling; families in Alaskan wilderness settings
hopping into airplanes to do shopping; families in the midst of
Africa homeschooling in remote village areas. Several older children
helped to write their family descriptions, and their writing ability
in itself shows what a fine success their homeschooling has been.
There are families with lots of children and more on the way, and
single-child families. The depth of sharing and the uniqueness shown
is awesome. Its truly the sort of book you can curl up with for
hours and hours and not notice the outside world for the duration,
like when you find an engrossing novel where you forget all about
your own current concerns. But when you do emerge and see your own
home and family again, I guarantee youll be doing so with new
perspective.
And besides the many new and fascinating family interviews, there are
the five-year follow-ups from the original families who shared their
lives and wonders and hopes in HOMESCHOOLING: A PATCHWORK OF DAYS;
and reading through these, Ive especially been touched, moved,
and amazed. I think these updates of our old friends from
the first book really offer a new view of homeschooling, a sort of
first-time longitudinal study of homeschooling and its impact
on families, learning, aspirations, and future goals. I think the
book is in many ways a real contribution to the whole field of
homeschooling research, and not in the usual research sense of
collecting statistics and test scores and norms and bell-shaped
curves of this or that. But in the really human sense of recording
firsthand how homeschooling has changed these familiess lives
over many years.
And just like youll find all types of families in the section
of new homeschoolers, here youll find that homeschooling
families dont all take the same route as their kids grow older
and circumstances change. Many families moved, or mothers needed to
work full-time, or illnesses intervened that caused real disruption
and stress. Many are still homeschooling or continued until their
kids completed high school, but some have found other paths that are
better for them at this time&emdash;and they all have things to teach
us about perspective and self-evaluation and really searching for
what is best for our own families. They will give you the courage to
be your own family, and not feel that you need to be one certain type
of homeschooler, or that you have to keep homeschooling indefinitely
if its no longer the best plan for your family.
What was so heartwarming, maybe even especially in those stories
where families had made different schooling decisions as their
children grew older, was the close sense of family that they still
maintained&emdash;along with a continuing sense of personal
responsibility to show enthusiasm and interest in their
childrens education and new endeavors. Theyve often
become the type of parents that all teachers in schools hope
for&emdash;those that are involved, helpful, encouraging,
appreciative. And these parents know better than to just say
now education is someone elses
responsibility&emdash;were done. Truly, no matter where
kids are educated, the base of family life and parental interest and
encouragement is always key.
Its also so encouraging to hear how so many of these children
we all got to know from PATCHWORK have now become such responsible,
good people, leading purposeful lives, doing positive work to make
this world a better place. This maybe crazy homeschooling idea some
of us had way back so many years ago really has panned out. Some of
these homeschoolers are now married (including my first
son&emdash;and to a homeschool grad!), many are off in college and
doing extremely well. Others are sought after for work opportunities
because theyve continually shown themselves to be trustworthy,
capable, and caring. Homeschooling for so many of us was a real leap
of faith&emdash;we had no idea how these kids might possibly turn
out, as we had no road map to follow, and few stories from others who
had gone the whole route and ended up with fine young adults on the
other end. Now you can start hearing those stories&emdash;they are
realities, not just dreams.